Seriously, what the hell was that?

No one can ever be prepared to lose their partner. I sure as shit was not. Here, I wade through the muck of grief and loss and hope to help you feel a little less throat-punched through it all.

I’ve been thinking a lot about perspective and how we see what we want to see in other people.  When Bill and I started dating, I know we baffled a lot of people. I was younger, adrift, recently divorced – things that spell trouble on the surface. I am also tattooed and have lived a… Read more

A good friend lost her husband, suddenly, eight months before I lost Bill. J also died of a massive heart attack, and T is 364 days older than me. While she and I are very different in many ways, we joke “because, Aries” for the similarities. We’re both strong and have chosen the-road-less-traveled paths in… Read more